Bring connection and love back into your life.

RACHEL MITCHELL, LCSW, RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST IN CALIFORNIA

Relationships require hard work and effort, but are they supposed to be this hard?

My approach to therapy is focused on you and your story. Our sessions will be tailored to what is important to you so that you walk away with not only skills to apply, but new insight into yourself.

There is a lot of advice available out there about relationships. From magazines to podcasts, everyone seems to have opinions about what you should do (or not do) to create the relationship you crave. Through our therapy sessions, you will discover what YOUR opinion is and what YOU are able and willing to do to make the changes you require.

I have 10 years of clinical experience and 5 years of working with couples tackling issues of infidelity, non-monogamy, miscommunication, and conflict. I am passionate about helping people achieve connection and love with themselves and each other.

 

What it’s like to work with me

Going to therapy and talking to a complete stranger about things that you may not have ever said to anyone else before (or even admitted to yourself) can be scary. That’s why trust and mutual respect is a foundational aspect to achieving positive results in the therapy process. Therapy with me is unbiased, non-judgmental, and focused on creating a space that allows you to feel safe to fully express your deepest thoughts and feelings and receive understanding.

That is not to say that I won’t ever challenge you to think about things from a different perspective or consider ways in which you are responsible for your actions and choices. Therapy is a growth process, which can be uncomfortable. I will ask you questions that may make you question assumptions you never thought you had, but this will lead to you understanding yourself and others more fully.

In order to experience change in your life, changes need to happen outside of the therapy room. That might mean a handout to remember skills we discussed or setting some goals on what to work on until our next session. I don’t guarantee specific outcomes, but you will see changes as you change yourself.

 

VALUES

COMPASSION

At the core of therapy practice is the need for compassion for yourself and for others. I commit to providing a non-judgmental space for all my clients that is welcoming and accepting of who you are.

SAFETY

Although there are no rules for healthy relationships, safety is paramount to healthy connection. I provide a place of security in my sessions for you to be vulnerable, while also assessing and addressing safety concerns in relationships appropriately.

CHOICE

I am committed to the idea of freedom of choice in the relationships you have and boundaries you choose to set. I will serve as a guide, not tell you what to do.

INFORMED

While I can’t promise that I know everything, I am committed to being an informed, evidence-based, and culturally aware provider so that I can provide effective and appropriate services.

 

TRAINING & EDUCATION

I’m committed to ongoing education & training to best support you and your significant relationships.

  • Masters in Social Work from San Diego State University in 2012

  • Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 2016

  • EFIT (Emotion focused Individual therapy) Level 1

  • Certified Trauma therapist

  • Gottman trained

  • National Association of Social Work member